Cheated On - When can she draw the line?!
I know a woman who is married and has two beautiful girls. From an outsiders perspective, this woman has an amazing life. Her and her daughters have all the materialistic things anyone can ever dream of. But what goes in their home, cannot be seen by an outsider. Unfortunately, the father is a womanizer. It’s common knowledge that he has many affairs. Even the daughters knw. What sort of message is the mother sending out to her daughters? That cheating is okay? By being quiet about it and not fighting it she is consenting to it. She might as well give him her blessing! How can a woman welcome her husband into her home knowing that he has just come from another woman’s arms?! She might have her own reasons. I am not criticizing her. But i cannot understand it. I cannot comprehend how she is okay with it. A woman deserves a husband who is AT LEAST loyal to her. Why would anyone settle for any less? Why would anyone do that to their selves? Does she not know she deserves better than that? And how can he do that? After all these years of her standing by him through the good and the bad. All these years of taking care of him and his children. How can he? Doesn’t he practice any self control? Does he even have a conscience? Does he even know what that is?! I do not understand these women. I never had and never will.
well madri shesalfa bas hathi mo awal qisa asma3ha 3an hashay couldnt she just sit with him o etgoula ena she knows o takhith mena promise a7is once im married khalas its a contract between me ‘n my wife 7imdellah i never back stabbed a friend 3ashan i cheat on my wife bas a7is thats so cheap o lame .. she must sit with him wetha ma6la3at eb nateeja i guess tamshi eb karamatHa wayed a7san mahma kan ethiman cuz nathrat e3yalha betkoun so 7aqeera weyaha when they grow up
Like u said, she might have her own reasons.. bs el 9ara7a i could never think of any reason ekhaleeni artha beli ehya rathyaa feeh.. allah ykoon eb 3onha.
Zwaiz: Wasnt the promise he made to her the day he married her enough? and what good is his promise if hee keeps breaking it! .. she shouldnt! she should leave him the minute he TOUCHED another woman. bethab6 .. wayed ga3da tenhan o rathya bele g3d e9eeer.. oo 3ala sheno?
Orange: ee bethab6 .. no reason would ever justify a guy that cheats.. o ghair chethe .. laish etsawe chethe eb 3umurha assassan? he doesnt deserve all the blood and tears she put into that marriage
Well, some people simply are’nt strong enough to stand up to what they believe in.
In that case, it’s wrong all over, ya3ne mu wagfa 3ala what the woman believes in .. But then again, when the issue involves children, things change, and actions that could be taken are put into consideration a thousand times.
I dnt thnk there’s any parent that would put themself prior to their children, so yemkin she’s taking all that 3ashan 3yalha .. 3ashan ma tabi tahdim bait’ha ,, w Allah y3eenha ya3ne .. what can she do (( U never knw, maybe il rayal masik’ha mn eedha ill t3awirha .. 3ala golat’hum ;p ))
All I can say is we don’t know the reasons and we don’t have to because Allah(SWT) knows what we do not!
la7tha sheno ya3ni SWT? ;p
yes. but im not talking abt what alllah sub7ana o ta3ala knows and soes not know .. im talking abt what possibly could be a reason for her to still stay with him?!
shoofay the husband is probably high on some drug or drunk ass or watever! wa7id ensaan wa3ii maysawii chtihii without feeling atleast some guilt mu shar6 towards the wife .. to his own flesh and blood! .. o the wife maybe she thinks by staying with him shes somehow protecting her children!? or maybe she has this image to the world that she loves that she doesnt wana loose .. a7es wats going thru her head is
” i dont have a perfect home but the world dusnt have to know that ” ;/ maskeena i feel reali bad for her and her kids .. and that BASTARD iff waii3 no comment on him
tabe ten9edem? he does not! he feels that his reason is completley justified. and walks around proud of that. he knows everyone knows.. and he actually has the nerve to bring it up in casual conversations infront of people. how about that?
protecting her children?! what would her children think of her when they grow up? sheno nathrat-hum betkoon laha ?? she needs to protect them. by staying with him she isnt! al7een gool yemken the girls are too young to understand. bes imagine how they would feel once daddy leaves the house, this time FOR GOOD, to go live with his “new” family and “new” daughters or sons?
oo ghair chethe.. ya ena ra7 te7amela. wet6ale3 7arat-ha be3yalha .. aw tasket we9eer feeha shay b3dain.. madre a7es chethe!